EPISODE 64

White Lotus and Red Flags

Let’s take a look at this season of White Lotus and see if we can spot all the relationship red flags!

We all love a good love story, full of cinematic whirlwinds. But what if the love story you’re telling yourself isn’t real? What if you’re falling for an idea rather than the actual person?

Season 3 of White Lotus (in addition to being incredibly fun to watch) is shining a light on a pattern so many of us fall into in midlife dating: fooling ourselves into mistaking fantasy for love.

When we crave romance that feels like a movie, we risk ignoring red flags, rushing into relationships, or clinging to an illusion that’s never going to last. I’m unpacking a few of the biggest relationship red flags from this season, and how they can hold a mirror up to our own patterns.

I’m breaking down:

Why turning a blind eye to someone’s true personality is a great way to build a completely inauthentic partnership (Victoria and Timothy).
How getting caught up in fantasy-driven love will lead you down a dark path (Chelsea and Rick).
How friendships can be a minefield of past hurts and betrayal, especially when no one does the hard work of having honest, direct conversations (Jacklyn, Laurie and Kate).
A few key shifts that can help you move from fantasy and delusion to real connection and romance.

If you’ve ever held onto a relationship because of its potential, overlooked signs and ignored your gut instinct, or found yourself chasing chemistry over compatibility, tune in.

And if you’re ready to tell yourself a new love story and manifest the life you truly deserve, join me for four transformational days at my women’s retreat in Leavenworth, Washington, this April 23-26. Let’s do the work to unlock deep, lasting love in midlife TOGETHER!

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