EPISODE 38

(Love That For You) 5 Quick Tips to Trust Your Dating Instincts

Dating blunders happen, and when they do, they can quickly throw you off track. You start second guessing yourself – Will you ever figure out how to choose the right partner? Why do you agree to things you know you don’t want? How can you stay true to yourself and the vision you have for love?

Trusting your instincts sounds easy but sometimes we lose track of how to do it.

Here are 5 simple ways to help you tap into your inner wisdom and clear the path to love:

  • 1. Listen to Your Gut

Your instincts are powerful tools, honed for and by you. When you trust your inner voice, it protects you from making poor choices and leads you to what you really want. Why? Because your inner wisdom often knows what your mind hasn’t figured out yet. Rely on and listen to those gut instincts.

  • 2. Reflect on Past Experiences

Don’t dwell on the past, but do learn from it. Looking back on past relationships and considering what insights you gained helps you renew and refresh your approach to relationships. Every experience in life can guide you forward if you let it.

  • 3. Mindfulness Matters

Don’t be intimidated by mindfulness practices. They can be simple, everyday things that help you tune into your inner voice, like walks in nature, journaling, or even just peaceful silence. Mindfulness helps you stay present and connected to who you are and what you want.

  • 4. Honor Your Values and Boundaries

Know your core values and stick to them. Don’t talk yourself into doing things you don’t want to do just to please others. This is something that women in particular have to learn again and again. Trusting your instincts means aligning with what matters to YOU, alone or in a relationship.

  • 5. Surround Yourself with Supportive People

Everyone you love is part of your love story! Spending meaningful time with people who support and love you is a great way to invigorate your life force. You feel more confident, expansive, happy, and hopeful. Your inner voice can be reflected in those close to you.

Remember, there’s one person you can trust in your search for love and that person is YOU. When you have your own back, there’s nothing to fear. Finding Love in midlife can be a winding journey. Take loving care of yourself along the way.

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