If you’re out of practice, midlife dating can mean falling back into old patterns. This time around, Nancy invites you to try a different way.

Years ago, in the thick of the dating game, Nancy was still searching for the red hot, thunderbolt of romance, an old pattern from her younger years. The kind of immediate passion that plays out on the big screen and leaves you breathless. This led her to men who thrive on big gestures and big talk, but don't follow up with any real substance.

(Cue Carrie Bradshaw voiceover) I couldn't help but wonder… Why do we cling to things that we know aren't in our best interest, and how can we shift our mindset to explore something different?

In episode 5, Nancy shares her tips for dating smarter. Start by recognizing that dating is often a numbers game, and finding your ONE TRUE LOVE may not happen on your first try. So make it easier on yourself and take it slow. In midlife, don’t let the tick tock of the clock rush you into making the wrong choices. Taking things slow doesn't have to feel boring, in fact, it might lead you to the most thrilling love story of your life.

14.25 “Dating is a numbers game. Pace yourself, because you may not find your true love the first time out of the gate.”